Crager Ministries Podcast

Simply

Relational

with Darran (D.L.) and Shelly Crager PhD.

The Simply Relational Podcast is dedicated to helping couples build stronger marriages and equipping parents to lead with confidence. Each episode features honest conversations, practical biblical wisdom, and simple tools drawn from decades of marriage, parenting, ministry, and leadership experience.

Keeping the Momentum: Five Rhythms That Prevent Drift

Rediscover momentum in your marriage with practical, actionable rhythms you can start today. In this episode, we break down the five essential habits that prevent relational drift and strengthen your connection.

  • How to pursue your spouse daily with small, intentional acts

  • The difference between meaningful conversation and simple information exchange

  • Steps to repair before resentment builds, including the 4 Rs of healthy repair

  • Why laughing often together matters and how to make fun a priority

  • Ways to pursue Christ together as the foundation for all other rhythms

Warning Signs of Drifing in Your Marriage

Are you missing the warning signs that your marriage is drifting? In this episode, we break down the four key danger zones couples face and how to spot them before it’s too late.

  • The danger of becoming complacent and letting life distractions take priority over your relationship

  • The first alarming sign: you stop pursuing each other

  • How a lack of meaningful conversation signals trouble

  • The critical mistake of not noticing each other and allowing small issues to pile up

  • Why failing to repair hurts can create distance you didn't see coming

The Secret To Raising Wise Decision-Makers

Unlock the secret to raising kids who make wise decisions—on their own. This episode breaks down the four practical phases every parent should know.

  • The shift from protecting kids to preparing them for real-life choices

  • Why big decisions are built on thousands of small ones

  • The four developmental phases of parenting and how your role changes

  • How to transition from directing to coaching your child’s decision-making

  • Encouragement and practical tips for fostering responsibility and confidence in your kids

Discipline Training Hearts, Not Controlling Behavior

In this episode, we dive deep into the heart of effective, biblical discipline and what it truly means for parents. Get clear answers on common discipline debates and practical tools to guide your children toward strong character.

  • Why the purpose of discipline matters more than the method (spanking, timeouts, etc)

  • The difference between biblical and cultural definitions of discipline

  • How generational approaches to discipline have shifted over time

  • Understanding and applying consequences that connect to your child's growth

  • The dangers of frustration-driven punishment and permissive gentle parenting

Parenting Wisdom Why Connection Is the Key to Correction

In this episode of Simply Relational, the focus returns to parenting with practical strategies rooted in biblical principles. Discover actionable steps to improve discipline and strengthen your relationship with your children.

  • Why cultivating roots is more important than focusing on "fruit" in biblical parenting

  • The real meaning of "connection before correction" and why it matters

  • Common discipline pitfalls like yelling and humiliation—and why they don't work

  • A simple three-step process: pause, connect, correct

  • How offering acceptable choices empowers children and prevents power struggles

Growing Strong Roots Raising Children Who Bare Good Fruit

Unlock practical biblical wisdom for parenting in today's world. Learn why growing strong roots matters more than perfect apples.

  • Why parents are overwhelmed by conflicting advice

  • The apple tree analogy for parenting and what truly matters

  • The difference between stewardship and ownership of children

  • How to help kids grow through struggles, not just escape them

  • The biblical foundation for building resilient, principled kids

From Me to We Building Lasting Connection in Your Marriage

Discover how the baggage you bring into marriage shapes your relationship dynamic. Learn practical tips to move from “me” to “we” for a stronger, more connected partnership.

  • Why unresolved personal baggage impacts marriages for years

  • The “marriage suitcase” analogy and what you’re really carrying into your relationship

  • How family backgrounds influence conflict styles and communication

  • The danger of focusing on your partner’s flaws instead of strengths

  • Concrete steps and tools, like the marriage quiz, to help unpack issues and build unity

The Myth of Balance Why Equal Isn't Biblical

Are you struggling to find balance in your relationships? This episode challenges the common myth of balance and reveals a more effective, biblical approach to priorities.

  • Why the idea of "finding balance" is misleading and damaging.

  • The importance of establishing order, not equality, in your

    relationships.

  • A practical visual using your hand to remember relationship

    priorities.

  • How misplaced priorities impact marriage, parenting, and personal

    well-being.

  • The scriptural foundation for putting God first and how it changes

    everything.

When Priorities Shift Everything

Join and as they share insights from their 36-year marriage, careers, and their writing journey together. Discover how prioritizing relationships and faith has shaped their personal and professional success.

  • The importance of prioritizing faith and relationships in daily life

  • Lessons from experience vs. book knowledge in teaching and business

  • The power of vulnerability and mentorship in marriage

  • Structuring your life and family for long-term fulfillment

  • Writing Christian fiction and leadership books from a guide’s perspective

Interested in Hearing More?

Reach out to us today to start your journey to a better, more healthy marriage.

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